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Instead of “Earn karma points every time you help,” try “Offer help freely. You decide whether to share a story of the gift.”
Instead of “You must give before you can receive,” try “It is okay to ask for help, even if you have nothing to offer right now,” only when that matches your actual rules.
This directory will never say you are “gift-certified.” Entries describe publicly documented approaches. They are not endorsements.